My husband and I are both autistic. We had the first-ever All-Autistic wedding, and opened our event to the public. Not only was the "I Do Crew" autistic, but the film crew was autistic as well. We chose to do this to bring awareness that autistic individuals need love, relationships and marriage just like everyone else.
I was diagnosed with autism at age 50, after which I started an autism support group in my town. One day my future husband attended one of the meetings. We immediately became friends. Our friendship grew over the coming year. Our relationship turned to a romantic one after a celebration dinner where we were able to really talk and learn each other's deepest feelings. Abraham proposed to me on Christmas Eve 2014 outside on a crisp evening under the stars.
I had just been invited to speak at the Love & Autism Conference in San Diego. I contacted the conference organizer to ask if we could get married at the conference. She instantly said yes, and the wedding planning began. I had my friend, Dr. Temple Grandin give a special toast. There were many other noted autism advocates as part of our wedding party, including Dr. Stephen Shore who was our Officiant that married us!
We want to share our message of hope to everyone around the world. Also, we defy all the stereotypes of autism, giving more hope to individuals with autism AND the parents of autistic children.
Thank you VERY much!
Pensacola, FL
