It all started at Alex's 18 mos check-up. I am grateful his doctor didn't downplay my concerns. I wondered if Alex should be babbling or doing some other things that average kids may be doing at that age. Our doctor got us on the right path. The process was not easy but eventually after many check-ups, evaluations and observation, a diagnosis was finally given and we got ABA therapy.
I am happy for the many great services and helping hands we have given since that 18 month check-up. Thankfully Alex's outlook is very promising. Only after a couple months of ABA he has made great strides. A parent of an average child is proud of their child's achievement, but when you are a parent of a special needs child, those achievements (no matter how small) are like climbing mountains.
I was very upset at the beginning when we got the diagnosis but like many things in life we have to go through the emotions to finally get to acceptance and understanding. I look back and wonder why I was so upset. I am not going to lie, it has not been easy but being diagnosed on the spectrum is not a death sentence.
I would not trade my wonderful boy for anything. Don't ignore your concerns and if you don't agree with what professionals tell you then get a second opinion. Fight for your child and your family. It won't be easy but it will pay off in the end. I love this little boy and thank god for him everyday. He is my miracle child.
Novato, CA